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Show Me Your Panties

Do you think panties are just for sissies?

Think again, they are also for submissive men.

As a Femdom Mistress, I like to explore ways to help guys get in touch with their submissive sides. Oftentimes, guys will find me or the EnchantrixEmpire because they have a desire to be subservient or to be controlled by a woman.

I like to help you work through your submissive fantasies and let you explore and discover who you truly are.

What do panties have to do with being submissive?

Think about a lingerie store like Victoria Secret for a moment. A quick glance in the store indicates that it’s only for women! There are pink, frilly bras and panties everywhere and well the sexy outfits may be to entice a guy, they are for women to wear.  Or are they just for women to wear?

Now think about the typical pair of panties.

What comes to your mind? Is it that frilly, girly type? Panties are so girl-like even when they aren’t pink. Even the word panties has a girlish undertone.  So, if you think about wearing panties, you must be a sissy right?  Well I say not necessarily.   I think wearing panties can also make you just feel vulnerable, naturally submissive.

So what happens when YOU step into a pair of panties?

Instant vulnerability.

I’ve seen guys try on panties and become entirely different in their demeanor . You automatically stand different, and carry yourself different. But most importantly, you start to feel naturally more submissive.

Especially if you wear them underneath your regular clothes.

Men are supposed to be tough and strong, not vulnerable and awkward. Even your cock feels different. You may even find that you stay somewhat erect all day if you are wearing panties! Have you ever tried to stroke your cock through a pair of panties? Talk about a unique experience.

Plus, I HAVE to confess: I love seeing a guy in a pair of my panties!

The panties are the first step in domination phone sex. When I am through with you, all of your sexiest fantasies will be explored and you will be one of many submissive men who worship my body and give me complete control.

So, go and try on a pair of panties, go as far as stroking with them, then come back here and tell me how it feels.

I dare you!  The best comment or story about stroking with a pair of panties may even get you a pair of mine!

Mistress Alexandria

 

 

 

 


 

43 comments to Show Me Your Panties

  • Ashley419

    I am ready to show u. I am alsoready to talk and tell u about me!! Quicker u can respond the quicker I will become yours :)!!

  • Ashley419

    Hi mistress. U are totally correct. I have only worn Panties for most my adult life. Even before I dressed completely :)!! I love them and all the styles u can choose from. Thongs are sexy, but comfort And cuteness u are right!! Boyshorts!!!!

  • Hi Sexy Mistress Alexandria, aaahhh PANTIES, PANTIES AND MORE PANTIES!! Yes it is true that I do have a very large collection of panites from Victoria’s Secret. I have been buying my panties from VS for a long time, and when I started adding lingerie and thigh highs to my purchases it became an even bigger thrill. But the best thing by far was a few years ago when I finally got up the courage to ask to try sexy panties and lingerie on in the stores. I do love to go shopping at VS, it is the most rewarding thing for myself. I get to browse the store and find all sorts of panties and lingerie. And then go into a dressing room that is supposed to be for a woman to try everything on. And I take my time with eacy item check out myself in the mirrors from every angle I can get in the fitting room. Some times the sales girls with check on me and help with a strap or adjustment and tell me if they like how things look on me. It feels so good to have someone help and tell me how they think it looks. I usually spend about 1 1/2 to 2 hours in each store I go to. And normally spend about $150 to $200 each time. I just love the PANTIES and could not live without them. lol I would be honored to receive a pair of your PANTIES to wear. I would cherish them very much. xoxoxo Tabitha

    • Alexandria

      Tabitha, you have more panties than I do, I really think you do! I just love seeing what is in your bags when you return from one of your Phoenix lingerie shopping trips! Seeing you on cam modeling those lovely ensembles is so fun! It’s like playing girlie dress up with you, just like the LDW site, get girlie! only with you it is live and so much fun. I love hearing about your adventures shopping too. I bet those sales associates have lots of fun with you when you come in shopping. Not just at VS but all the shoe stores and others ones you shop at. I would have so much fun with you if I worked in a store and you came into shop. Send me an email Tabitha with your address and I shall shop and get panties for all of my girly girls, be sure to include the size too. And thank you for sharing your shopping experiences here with all of us…..Hugs Ms Alex

  • William

    Ah, you are too kind, Mistress Alexandria – thank you so much for your warm response to how I learned to wear panties and accept feminine superiority early and how I’ve learned to love it more and more. It is a real pleasure for me to tell a woman who so perfectly personifies this superiority, who is as beautiful and sexy as you are, how much I admire you and long to be like you. I only wish that you’d caught me in the act in my early episodes of wearing panties and slips and other intensely exciting feminine clothing! I’m sure you would have teased me, taken me in hand, accelerated my feminine development and taught me lots of precious lessons. When a woman as beautifully feminine as you are tells a guy that she wants him to wear panties – and slips, and bras, and nylons, and sexy dresses and all the rest – who could resist, who wouldn’t jump at the chance? Thank you deeply for confirming me in my love of feminine domination and my full acceptance of how dressing as a woman excites me so powerfully. Much love to you.

    • Alexandria

      Yes William it is all about feminine superiority isn’t it. But your adventure into how you learned to wear panties was most touching. Thank you for all the lovely comments pertaining to women and personifying their superiority. It is wonderful that you not only believe in it, but you live it day to day in your daily life. Yes, I probably would have teased you, but then determined how to further your journey into feminine development beyond just wearing panties. I am quite good with transgendering techniques if I may say so myself! And, most guys don’t resist at all, they do what ever it is I ask of them, after all I do give them full acceptance and admiration for being the person they so deeply desire to be. Much love back to you William and may we meet here again soon! And if you have any pictures you would like to share with me, fee free to send them to my email at alexandria@enchantrixempire.com. Hugs to you!

  • William

    Alexandria:
    The first step that led me to put on a pair of panties was playing with my older sister’s dolls that she’d abandoned in the attic. I still remember the desire I had to run my hand over the white silk dress of one of these dolls, how this stirred me up inside. I’m sure now that this experience led me later on to sneak into the bedroom next to mine and quietly open drawers until I found one filled with beautiful silky panties, slips, and half-slips. I knew I shouldn’t be lifting these panties and slips out of the drawer to handle and caress them, that boys aren’t supposed to do this, but I wanted to so badly, I was so excited by this feminine underwear that it was all I could think about, all I wanted. I kept coming back for more, and my passion for feminine girly clothes just kept growing.
    Finally on one visit I had to take the plunge, and I felt like I was in a dream as I took off my clothes, picked up a pair of black silky full panties, put my feet through the openings and pulled them up to my waist! A huge rush of desire and pleasure made me feel faint as I felt this silkiness tight around me for the first time, and even the dread of being caught couldn’t stop me from spending a good ten minutes in my first panties ever, fondling them and me through them, bending and turning my hips to feel the dark silky fabric tighten and slide slightly as I moved like a girl. It was so sad and hard to finally take off my panties, get dressed and return to normal again.
    I was totally hooked, a life-long fetish was established, and I kept coming back for more, putting on slips over the panties, which intensified my excitement even more, trying on all the girly clothes I was dying to wear. Finally on one visit I took a pair of my favorites, the black silky full panties, and hid them in my room. That night I wore them to bed and I spent a long time turning back and forth in them, squeezing myself through the beautifully light and exciting fabric. In the morning I found myself instinctively rubbing myself through the panties until, much to my surprise, I foamed up in my first masturbation experience ever, and it was the perfect way to learn to masturbate, even though I had a hard time cleaning the pair of panties properly before putting them back later.
    I am completely hetero, my love of dressing as a woman seems to stem from a love and desire for women that’s so strong that I want to be a woman – that’s the only way I can explain it. I’m really excited by dominant women, and I like shopping and trying on women’s wear in shops that sell sexy dresses and lingerie – it’s exciting when a woman helps me dress up. It’s nice to live in a world where women and femininity are more and more taking their rightful place – on top!
    Thanks for the great blogue, Alexandria – I wish I were as beautiful and sexy as you are!

    • Alexandria

      William, this is a beautifully touching story of how your desire to dress like a woman began. I am very honoured that you posted this on my blog, and I would really love to post the story on my actual blog. This is excellent and it should be posted in a place where it can be enjoyed by others who share your love for cross dressing. I would really be thrilled if you would email this to me, and you can add to it if you like, to alexandria@enchantrixempire.com and I will put it on my blog in your honour. Your experience from your first pair of panties, to now shopping in women’s clothing stores is so eloquently stated. You are beautiful my dear William, and it reflects right here in this beautiful story of your journey. Thank you so much for sharing this here, it’s very moving and compelling and I am deeply touched by your opinion that woman should be in their rightful place….on top. Hugs to you sweetie!

  • bradley boy

    Empress – love your black panties that are shown in the picture with this post – what style are those as I think I’d like to try that type for my first pair.

    Thanks

    • Alexandria

      That set came from one of my favorite lingerie stores here in New York bradley boy, and it’s called La Petite Coquette. You can find them on line and they also have a wonderful book on Amazon called The Lingerie Handbook, and the book is one of the best lingerie books I have ever read! The panties I have on are Brazilian Back Panties, which is a style that covers more of the cheeks than a thong, but they do reveal my bronzed butt cheeks as they are much smaller than a regular brief.

  • Cindy

    I have to agree with Tabitha, panties, panties, panties and the lovely mistresses at LDW give us a fabulous opportunity to have gorgeous women talk to us about our panty fetish without humiliation (unless we want that too). I recently went to VS and ended up spending over $150 on lingerie, mostly panties and just love them, for wearing or masturbating, and yes, I have the big bag of panties as well. Although it is somewhat frowned on here, I even have a couple of pairs of used panties I have recieved in the mail from some cyber lovers and that adds a wonderful erotic apsect to a pair. Maybe some day I can masturbate with a pair of your panties Mistress Alexandria and I can die happy:)

    BTW: I just realized if I click on your picture I get a wonderful enlarged pic. You are truely gorgeous and I love, love love, the lace panties and bra your wearing!

    • Alexandria

      Cindy I love lingerie! I will go as far as saying I am obsessed with it, as I can’t pass a lingerie store without going in and buying something. However, Tabitha has more lingerie than the store it self does in inventory. I have sessions with her on cam, and she shares with me what she buys and I am not kidding, I think one day she showed me at least 30 or more panties. We love having glorious women talk and sharing ourselves with you girls here at LDW. It’s so much fun! I can easily see how you would spend 150.00 at VS, it’s pretty easy to do. I would love to send you a pair of panties Cindy, but yes, they have to be new. I could rub them all over my boobies for you though…..~giggle giggle~ Thank you Cindy, I love lace like you do! *smile* I think if you click on any of the Mistress pictures you will get a wonderfully enlarged picture of any of us.

      • Cindy

        Mmmmmmm, now you are just teasing me aren’t you Mistress, and I love it… to have a pair of your sexy panties with a faint scent of my lovely mistress would be something I would treasure forever:) Maybe you can send them to me and make me wear them when you interview me on H&H:)

        I certainly do not have a collection that rivals the store itself, but I do have plenty of panties. I get a thrill out of shopping for them. I always wonder what the other lady shoppers and sales clerks think as I look through the displayed panties at VS looking for my size and I can’t help but check out what the other ladies are purchasing as well.

        • Alexandria

          Well Cindy, send me your address where you want your panties sent and you can definitely wear them for your interview on Hair and Heels! I don’t think we will have to coax you to wear them..giggle-giggle! I bet you do love shopping for panties after seeing the ones in your pics that you sent to me. Love those hot red ones sweetie. Keep up the good work being a good little panty slut Cindy……and don’t you know the sales associates know that those panties are for you! *smile*

  • Sexy Mistress Alexandria, this blog is so hot. I love panties so much, and as you know I have a huge collection. And yes just the word “PANTIES” can make me feel so good. I love to hear the word so much that I say it to myself often. My first pair of panties was stolen from my sister when I was just a teenager. And the soft silky satin fabric felt like heaven rubbing on my cock. The next time I took two pairs of panties so I could wear one pair and masturbate with the other. From that day forward I have always loved PANTIES!! And today when I put on a pair of panties (most often thong panties) I suddenly feel myself get softer and sexier. I just can’t imagine my life without PANTIES, PANTIES, AND MORE PANTIES!!! xoxoxo Tabitha

    • Alexandria

      Tabitha, you have more panties than most women I know, and that’s what is so special about you. You don’t by one pair of panties, you buy 20 at a time and that’s what makes you a true panty sissy! And that is not to mention all of the other sexy lingerie you buy! I wish others would take some lessons from you and learn what is to love panties…..to wear panties, to stroke with panties, to just put them on and feel so soft and sensuous! Tabitha’s School of Panty and Lingerie Training”

  • Panteezd

    Wow Ms I am also a panty lover. They have been designed to tease us guys so erotically. I love feeling silky filmy panties stretched over my enormous aching hard on when looking at pictures of sexy women like you in lingerie!
    Stroking lightly over them makes me drip with excitement, such that I get a wet patch at the tip of my bulge!
    I have had sexy phone sex teases like this also – sooo sexy. Once I was instructed only to tease myself through them and then “masturbate” by pulling gently up and down on my swollen testes. Eventually this resulted in an edge from the sloow filmy friction. The resultant throbbing even after I stooped the stimulation caused a ruined orgasm in the panties.
    Whew…
    It is very sexy being teased like that
    Thankyou Ms for your erotic thoughts
    Panteezd!

    • Alexandria

      Well Panteezd, I’m afraid according to my recent poll results over at the Enchantrix Empire, panties are for everyone, not just for sissies! And I couldn’t agree more. There is something so hot and sexy about a man in panties! Oh, the words “ruined orgasm” certainly peaked my interest as I love denying, ruining and abandoning orgasms for all you naughty stroker boys. And it doesn’t matter if you’re wearing panties or not when it comes to orgasm control with Mistress Alexandria

  • Cindy

    Haha, a panty aficionado, I have never thought of it that way, but I do love panties. I even love VPL’s. I love being able to look at a lovely womans ass and immediately being able to tell she is wearing a thong, or french cut panties, or bikini’s, I am such a perv;) I love a drawer full of sexy lace and colorful panties. And of course…if Mistress says to clean up my messy panties, I would happily do that.

    • Alexandria

      Awwh Cindy, pervy is fun! I bet you are quite the expert and detecting what style and type of panty a woman is wearing since you are now the official “panty aficionado” here at the phone sex masturbation blog! I bet you and Tabitha are running neck and neck from the sounds of the way you love drawers of panties. But guess what, so do I! Love, Love, Love, panties and thank you for being a good girl and cleaning up your mess! giggle~gigggle!

  • Cindynlace

    I love this entry mistress. I love wearing panties and have a huge panty fetish. You said it correctly, even the word panties has a feminine tone to it. I love hearing the word panties spoken by females. I am quite a voyer as well and love those intimate peeks you get of a womans thong when she bends over, or a peek up her dress. I love guessing what types of panties a woman may be wearing and love to hear what they are wearing. And I love stroking in panties. My fantasy is to stroke for a sexy mistress such as yourself with my panties while being teased until I cum all over my panties.

    • Alexandria

      Well my dear Cindy, you certainly are an aficionado of panties and how they are used aren’t you? I love you appreciate the tone of the word panties when spoken too. Peeking at women to see if you can get a glimpse of her panties is the sign of a “true panty aficionado” not to mention that you like to tease yourself and play games and guess what type of panties she is wearing. Just remember, if you stroke and make a mess with me, you have to clean it up!

    • Alexandria

      Well remember what I said when I commented on this, which I love hearing BTW……if you stroke in your panties and make a mess, you must clean it all up for me!

  • Tyra

    RE: Holiday Inn Express commercials……
    “The campaign shows brilliant feats regular folks can achieve after staying at a Holiday Inn Express. In one, an ordinary guy helps avert a nuclear disaster. In another, an Express guest studies the habits of the great white shark. A group of musicians don Kiss-wear and belt out a performance that earns them a record deal. When it is pointed out that they aren’t really smart scientists or rock stars, they reply, “No, but I did stay at a Holiday Inn Express last night.”
    :)

    • Alexandria

      So are you telling me my little sweet slut Tyra, that if you go spend the night, all dressed up like the sweet sissy you are, that you will end up being a sweet little cock sucking slut? I mean really, you just explained the campaign shows “brilliant feats” that can be accomplished by one after staying at a Holiday Inn Express! That to me is a brilliant way to get you back to cocksucking!

  • bradley boy

    thank you empress for the advice. I’ll look to do that and look forward to hearing other aspects of domination and how we can submit to you in the future.

    • Alexandria

      You’re welcome bradley boy! I am always happy to help and give suggestive advice, especially on how to please your Mistress in the different realms of what dom/sub relationships encompass.

  • Tyra

    “sending dirty panties in the mail is illegal”….i didn’t know that. I should have slept at a Holiday Inn Express last night…

    • Alexandria

      Well it sure is Tyra. It has to do with bodily fluids which are bio hazardous materials dear girl! And why would you want to sleep at the Holiday Inn Express? Yikes!

  • coffeeboy

    for longer than i care to remember, i’ve owned a VS bag of panties and 3 “emergency” pair of briefs. the panties run the gamut from full, pale pink satin ones from Kohl’s to v-string from Target, most bought in person by myownself.

    You are so right, about them not being “just” for sissy’s. to me they are a demarcation of my submissive nature and a daily occurrence under my man clothes….unless i’m going “surfer.” in fact, the only two days that i can recall wearing men’s briefs in the last year were in December, when i flew on Southwest (no cheap thrills for HSA!) and yesterday for a trip to the VA. next Tuesday will be the third, when i return to the VA .

    & yes, Ms. Alex, i’ve stroked with them…on occasion. now i just need help getting more process driven & less results oriented. ;)

    • Alexandria

      I am happy to hear you went in and bought your own panties coffeeboy, that is a giant step for many. Kudos to you for engaging in panty shopping. “Going Surfer”, is that like me going “Commando” So, you haven’t worn men’s briefs this past year, with the exception of 3 times? Excellent! Cheap thrills for HSA…..I will bet they have seen plenty of men in panties! Stroking with panties is fun! Edging with panties, with no ejaculation can be just as fun, thus “process driven vs results oriented. Love hearing these juicy tidbits here coffeeboy, thank you for sharing!

      • coffeeboy

        Yup! Surfer=Commando. i think its just a generational thing & since You are sooooo much younger than i am….

        i’ve no doubt but that the TSA folks have seen their share. i just don’t want to be one of them. i’d hate for a clip of be to pass across my own brother’s desk at HQ, lol

        • Alexandria

          Yeah right, sooooo much younger! I am not that much of a youngster, well maybe in my mind and heart I am. I guess you are right about those clips, you never know where things end up anymore now do you?

          • coffeeboy

            i figure, at the absolute top end, You’d be 2/3 my age….so that makes You a youngster, Ms. Alex!

            and as for clips & photos, i’m very circumspect. but i know, should the opportunity present itself, i can trust You. after all, who would You share with….the other LDW Lad……..uh, nevermind!

            • Alexandria

              coffeeboy, flattery will get you everywhere! 2/3 your age! I think a bit more since my daughters are older than yours. *wink* Well, it was a start the photos you did send me……now to talk you into sending me a peek of you in a nice pair of silky panties! C’mon please coffeeboys show me your panties! I will beg and grovel if you like!

              • coffeeboy

                now i understand “Scylla & Charybdis” in a very real sense. it would pain me greatly to see such a perfect Dominant beauty “beg & grovel.” otoh, there’s so much natural reticence to even taking such a pic!

                & i would have replied sooner, but it asked me to log in for like the last week!

                • Alexandria

                  between the devil and the deep blue sea or having to choose between two evils, the blog was wonky for a week, but is fixed now. My apologies for the malfunction. I can beg and grovel with the best of them…lol. Good to see you back coffeeboy!

  • Tyra

    Mistress Alexandria – surprise!….it’s me. Panties….such a feminine girly word…. a word that makes me stop and realize what a submissive sissy i’ve become since i’ve become Your plaything. And to wear a pair of YOUR panties?….OMG – that would be so, shall we say ‘arousing’? And of course, i hope they would be a pair of ‘dirty’ panties….panties that i would have to stuff in my mouth before and after i cum in them. Submitting to You totally….sucking on the essence of You as i also aubmissively savor the taste of my own cum for You. Yes Mistress, stroking while wearing Your panties, cumming in them and being forced to suck my sissy cream out of them….

    • Alexandria

      Well, Well, all I have to do is mention the word panties and Tyra comes running out of the woodwork! Now unfortunately sending dirty panties in the mail is illegal, and your Mistress doesn’t engage in insane, illegal activities. However, making you stroke with a pair of my panties and then allowing you to cum on them and clean up your sissy cream is not illegal. So, be careful what you wish for, Tyra or you may be turning those panties with your sissy cream in them into a “frozen delight” and made to suck them and clean them all up on cam!

  • bradley boy

    empress – great post. I love the idea of wearing women’s panties as it makes me feel submissive, bit humiliated, femme,and is highly erotic. I get hard every time I put them on. I’ve wanted to go out in public with them on, but been too scared and only done in the safety of my home or hotel room when traveling for work.

    • Alexandria

      Thank You Bradley boy, and thank you for stopping by my blog. I am glad you enjoyed the post. Yes, I agree, panties are not just for sissies, the truly do bring out the submissive nature in any male. Well, instead of being afraid, embrace the idea and do it. Perhaps to ease into it, get some boyshort panties, a more neutral color for the first pair and make that your starting point. Then as you feel more secure and comfortable, try a sexy cheeky booty panty in a hot color for summer. You have to take that first step, but once you do, you will be happy you did.

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